Wondering???
As the world keep on spinning and doing its job, so here I am sitting on my desk keep on clicking on news that caught my interest. Listen to the song that I find relaxing. Sitting and thinking really got me exhausted and how I wonder how did I keep it going on before.
Huh, and sighing really got me nothing. I wondering did anyone out there think like I do???
Why do I keep doing this??? What am I doing exactly??? What is it that I am actually looking for??? Why is it that felt annoying at something that is not such a major thing???
Do you guys having a thought right now??? I mean about anything, anything at all. Why do sometimes we push ourselves doing something that we do not like? Keep on making others feel please and happy. While us, ourselves feel torturing or miserable inside.
We try to care for others and respect them so that we won’t hurt them. We try to make sure that we are not doing the things that might got them offended, but yet they treats us like we doing something horrible. They treat us like we are actually enjoying the way they treat us or making us feel.
I wonder if we doing the same towards them? But, I already have the answer. They would we are rude, disrespectful and selfish. But when it comes to them, they would deny anything and in the end we were the one who got the blame. We are the one who become the bad guys.
Pleasing others is not are a happy life if you are not happy. But being happy does not mean that you have to treat others the way they treat you. Being happy is being yourselves. I am not good in giving advice but as I living my life I encountering a lot of problems. That sometimes would bring my walls down.
One thing that I learn, do not try to please others if they not doing the same to you. It’ll make you hurt yourselves. Before we please others and trying to make them happy, first we have to please ourselves and make ourselves happy.
It matters what they think, but do not try so hard on them. Let them do theirs and we do ours.
Eventually, they come to you.
